Most of us have heard something like this growing up. Maybe we've even said it without realising what it does.
I listened to Bob LeMent on Positive Parenting 101, and one point really stayed with me.
Comparing a child doesn't necessarily make them work harder.
Sometimes it just teaches them that who they are isn't enough.
The more a child hears comparisons, the more they can start measuring their worth against everyone around them.
What if instead of asking children to catch up with someone else, we helped them see how far they've come themselves?
That small change could make a much bigger difference than we realise.
Do you think parents underestimate how much comparison affects a child's confidence?
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As a teacher I always try to avoid comparing my students with each other.
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good
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This is such an important point. Children don’t need to feel like they have to become someone else to be worthy. Focusing on their own progress, effort, and strengths can help them build confidence that lasts far beyond childhood. Sometimes, a little encouragement is much more powerful than comparison.
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Yes, comparison can quietly damage a child’s confidence because every child grows at their own pace.
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Exactly
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Really Meaningful.
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We need some good suggestions for it.. it's good to see u as a teacher...
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